Whoever coined the reassuring catchphrase “size doesn’t matter” may have lied.
According to a new study in The Journal of s*xual Medicine, one-third
of women who frequently have vaginal orgasms claim they’re more likely
to climax when having s*x with men with larger penises.
Researchers asked more than 300 women how often they had s*x, how
frequently they had vaginal and/or clitoral orgasms, and whether or not
man-hood length influenced their ability to climax during intercourse.
Out of the 160 women who often experienced vaginal-only orgasms and had
enough partners to compare sizes, one third said they preferred
longer-than-average penises.
What exactly does “average” count for these days? According to a
study, you can compare your man-hood to the length of a 20-pound
banknote or U.S. dollar bill, so 5.8 inches and 6.1 inches,
respectively.
But before you start freaking out that you don’t measure up, keep
this in mind: 60 percent of the women in the survey did report that size
made no difference. What’s more, when Men’s Health surveyed 3,289 women
on how happy they are with their s*x lives, only 7 percent of sexually
satisfied women said that man-hood size was critical to their pleasure.
So sure, size may matter to some women, for some types of orgasms.
But the good news is you can outsmart your size even if you come up
short. Your secret weapons? Passion, foreplay, and variety. Here’s how
to make them work for you.
1. Give Her a Rubdown
It isn’t your man-hood that keeps women coming back for more, it’s your
passion, says Yvonne K. Fulbright, Ph.D., sexologist and Astroglide’s
Health and Wellness Ambassador. But that doesn’t always mean ripping her
clothes off as soon as you close the bedroom door.
Try this: Before you begin rounding the basis, start small. Run your
fingers through her hair, caress her jaw line, and return to massaging
her scalp. Continue to work your fingers down her neck and on to her
shoulders, stopping the massage every so often to briefly kiss her on
the back of her head or on her ear.
2. Ice, Ice Baby!
If foreplay to you means a couple minutes of hands-on-br**sts action,
it’s time for a serious upgrade. You need to show her you’re not in a
hurry.
Try this: Remove her bra so you can kiss, nibble, and lick all over
her br**sts. Take her bosom in your mouth and roll your tongue around
its perimeter. Then pop an ice cube in your mouth and repeat the
process. Once her bosom’s erect from temperature spike, remove the cube
and continue until your mouth and tongue is warm again.
3. Enhance Your Erection
Once she’s ready to go, choose a flattering position. “Avoid
missionary,” says Jen Landa, M.D., author of The s*x Drive Solution for
Women. “You’re not able to penetrate as deep and the angle doesn’t
really accentuate your size.” Instead, try these two positions, the
Flatiron and the cowgirl
